@WelshPixie are we as men really so insecure that we must defend our actions despite evidence that they are hurtful regardless? >:(
why is anyone even questioning this? this is wrong, period. let's stop arguing about that and start figuring out a reasonable way to resolve it! i'm talking to you people with the dicks!
@WelshPixie i can kind of understand that. i'm sure that after being harassed, ginny didn't want to deal with all the B.S. afterwards. even if it was meant to defend her and i'm somewhat guilty for that.
that said, imagine a situation where instead of saying her actions were questionable, the admin in question had decided to silence her because of the fact that she discusses the harassment and wanted to protect his users from it. there's a really fine line there i don't like.