I wanted to share this the other day: Adam Savage turned out to be one of the really good guys.
Gender isn't binary, it's complex, the closer you look at something the more complex it is <3
I find this applies to relationships too.

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@maloki Knowing something for sure is mostly a security blanket. But people often react savagely to having security blankets removed... even if it isn't their security blanket in the first place.
@Katharsisdrill oh, yeah, I'm well aware.
Which is why I practice so much to not be 100% sure of anything. Like admit to myself, and people around me that I could be wrong.
It's quite nice actually :)
@maloki - yes, me too. I think I was always a sceptic. Intellectually from my father and emotionally from my mother. She always see things from the view of the others and try to feel with tjem - even Hitler. Poor bastard :)
@Katharsisdrill feeling with, maybe not so much. But trying to understand the path which leads people to where they are is very fascinating to me.
@maloki - no, feeling for everybody, and really doing it, leads to a beautiful relativism that can be hard to live with. Only truly naive altruistik people can do this, so I am not able to either.