...yeah, this pretty much persuades that for whatever is going on 'round here, federation is a privacy nightmare.
Also, following @u2764 now. Smart, smart criticism, with a side of understanding why the more server-fluent are so wary of Mastodon in the first place.
I'm not here for privacy, mind. Mission statement remains consistent: I'm here to talk, and I'm here to listen. I'm here for whoever wants positive dialogue. And a lot of that hope IS for what happens in the open.
But: having privacy settings and not having the means to actually enforce privacy on other federated servers is something that should be A LOT more transparent.
@u2764 Ah, fair enough. This seems fine to me, though, as I would have expected ALL my followers to see Private posts (since that's what the tooltip says, and since I follow people on all sorts of random instances).
Having extra granularity wouldn't hurt, though. I think that's along the same lines as allowing individuals to block instances and such.
@u2764 Maybe part of the issue is careful consideration of default settings?
If default was/is set to authorize only followers on your server, folks would need to opt-in to authorizing others and offer opportunity to explain risks?
Getting default settings right even bigger than this example.
@Gargron