Mastodon newbie protip: don't click the "remote follow" button. Just copy the user's URL and paste it into the search bar of your home instance, then click the follow button (the little icon of a person with a "+" on it).

Not only is "remote follow" slower and more awkward; it's a potential security risk, because a malicious instance could trick you into giving them your password (if you're not paying attention to the URL bar).

@nolan sorry to be a complete dullard but where / what is the 'remote follow' button?

Is that the button that appears next to the profile of someone on a remote instance, when it's displayed in the fourth column?

@quirst It's a button that literally says "remote follow." 😉 You can check the profile of a remote user that you don't follow to see what I mean; if you're at example.com/@username then you'll see it.