@phooky oof, can't say I know it first-hand, but I can try. Looks as if a guy ("Tristram") is born and a lot of bad stuff occurs and according to his dad that minor bad stuff is truly calamitous. And, ah, Tristram's avuncular guy Toby sustains a groin injury and wants to go all in on making a small imitation of that grim spot (and also: falls for a widow)