BarryApr 18, 2017

So, I'm married. And I'm not exactly a great guy. I've cheated before and I may yet again.

Why? I love my spouse. Maybe it is the thrill. Some of the hottest sex I've had has been while cheating. Not necessarily on my wife, but on past girlfriends.

Maybe I'm just unsatisfied. I've certainly raised that issue before. But I have got one hell of an appetite.

Anyway, I know I am a jerk, I recognize that. Sorry.

Show threadCheryl D.
@barry_nsfw Maybe you're just not monogamous. While it is unkind to cheat, an open relationship can be a beautiful thing and there are many variants of "ethical non-monogamy" -- one might be right for your marriage, assuming your wife is also game.
Apr 18, 2017 at 10:29pmWeb
Show threadBarryApr 18, 2017
@victriviaqueen You're absolutely right. I've tested that water some and she wasn't game. Which is too bad. I've certainly considered that thought of me not being monogamous though.
Show threadCheryl D.Apr 18, 2017
@barry_nsfw I spent about 15 years thinking marriage -- and monogamy -- was just "hard" for me. Turns out I'm just super non-monogamous. LOL We tried opening the marriage but it was already broken so... the wheels fell off that wagon shortly after it left the barn.
Show threadBarryApr 18, 2017
@victriviaqueen How did you broach that topic? Suggesting the desire to fuck others, I mean.
Show threadCheryl D.Apr 19, 2017
@barry_nsfw Ooh.... well oddly enough a mutual friend confessed a crush on my spouse so I told her to fill her boots. She flung herself at him and much to my surprise he was willing.... so it just kind of.... happened. The discussion came after. LOL.
Show threadBarryApr 19, 2017

@victriviaqueen LoL that is fantastic. I don't foresee anything like that happening with our groups of friends. Mostly because they're all happily monogamous and tbh, I don't think we're attracted to any of them.

So I guess I just kinda have to play wait and see. One night she mentioned she is bi, which took me by surprise. I said it would be hot for her to have a GF but she apparently just wants to fuck me. Only once a week though I guess