@Maverynthia I don't know, let's see if this is a DM. I set the toot to unlisted.
@Maverynthia But YEAH, excellent question! I can't tell where I would go to DM, since there aren't any icons that look like DMs. And if that's not a feature, hope that happens fairly soon.
@Mentalina @Maverynthia set the privacy to "Direct". If you're using the web client click the globe to set it.
@Maverynthia @Mentalina basically, unlisted just won't show up on local and federated timeline but can still be boosted and seen on your individual profile. Private is followers only, no boosts allowed. Direct is well, you know 😁