Like. I get why instances that break the rules of a place get blacklisted? But I've had some good convos with ppl from non masto instances? Who have been perfectly ok folks?
Idk I'm on Ico because I like being able to talk to different folks, thou I won't talk to bigots or certain instances that make me rlly uncomfortable. That's my rule here.
And I'm here rather than masto cuz of the way certain folks behaved toward marginalised ppl criting em :-/