Emily Alice 🔮Jul 19, 2017

do you know about #rolequeer? it's somewhat of an analog to #bdsm, but... better (i.e. liberatory for all).

a person whose name i don't know but i respect greatly taught me about it. and, YOUCANTOO: https://bandanablog.wordpress.com/

i love this. it is my favorite blog.

#rolequeer #blog #feminism #anarchism

Show threadneville parkJul 19, 2017

@emily Aaand I just ran into the name of a Sketchy Dude and noped right out again, but that was a fun two minutes.

I don't know why I still think about this stuff; for me sex and particularly BDSM is just an expensive hobby I used to be into. Oh well

Show threadEmily Alice 🔮Jul 19, 2017
@nev Also, is "Sketchy Dude" included in any relevant #whispernetworks? I'm linked into a few... on a couple we've talked about the role of an intergenerational accountability council holding names and stories, but... we're not there yet. Is that person at all in any accountability network?
Show threadneville parkJul 19, 2017
@emily I have no idea. I recused myself from whispernets/backchannels after I stopped being female
Show threadEmily Alice 🔮
@nev fair enough... if I may ask, is that because you felt women identifying folks should be centered or burnout or discrimination or etc or ...?
Jul 19, 2017 at 2:21amWeb
Show threadneville parkJul 19, 2017
@emily Burnout, centering women. Got fed up with *knowing* but being unable to tell anyone, or do anything, because it would out the victim to the perpetrator. It was no longer a matter of personal safety and, frankly, hadn't been for a long time. Now I just trust no men