person: the sg fandom is so great and wonderful and nice!
my friend: [points out the rampant homo/transphobia that occurs even now]
person: oh well i wasn't talking about that! and also i'm a lesbian so i can say that it's not so bad!
my friend: [outlines how there's dehumanizing transphobic "discussion" on the forum and a blanket ban on lgbt fics]
person: oh well that's to prevent fetishizing!!!!