@nev @elebertus @ai6yr speaking as a middle manager
sometimes you just let things go because otherwise nobody learns
@ai6yr @nev @elebertus so I've been listening to this series of self help audiobooks by a Japanese Buddhist monk
it's very useful stuff
but at one point the monk is like, and if things go poorly for you at work, do not let it trouble you, today is not like the old days when you would have been expected to disembowel yourself
which was one of those oh shit! moments but also a really useful thing to keep in mind when I'm stressing about the job
@ai6yr @nev @elebertus you can always get another job! but not if you're disemboweled
it's a healthy perspective to cultivate