Banning kids from social media seems wildly unpopular on social mastodon

and wildly popular among parents in the UK

It's a weird disconnect

@sean where are you hearing that it's popular with UK parents? I can't really find anything on parents' general reactions online.

@mag loads of surveys, plus parents I know

This for example

https://yougov.com/en-gb/daily-results/20251202-12c49-2

I have mixed feelings - I think "something must be done"

and under 16 ban is not what I'd do

I lean towards thinking it is at least something and maybe it will lead to something better - but it's going to have some bad side effects.

This law will cost lives - and so does the status quo - it is a mess.

Would you support or oppose banning children under the age of 16 from having social media accounts? | Daily Question

Would you support or oppose banning children under the age of 16 from having social media accounts?

@sean yeah I'd guess parents are in the "something must be done" headspace, while mastodon users, having a bit of distance from the problem, will prefer trying to get to root of it

@mag what frustrates me is that I don't see much by way of solutions put forward.

There is a lot of "no, this law is a bad thing"

which will do no good given the level of support it has

I also see a lot of stuff about "parent should just say no" and "use parental controls" from people who clearly don't have kids - have forgotten what it was like to be a kid, and have not attempted to use the deliberately awful parental controls.

@sean it's easier to complain about problems than to come up with solutions, that's for sure

I like the Open Rights Group's take on a solution, which is essentially to regulate social media such that the incentives that cause it to be harmful dissipate: https://www.openrightsgroup.org/press-releases/starmers-social-media-ban-fails-to-address-root-causes-of-online-harms/

would definitely take a lot longer to implement than setting an age limit, especially since the latter gets to delegate age verification to unregulated third-parties

Starmerโ€™s social media ban fails to address root causes of online harms

Open Rights Group has responded to Prime Minister Keir Starmerโ€™s announcement that the Government will ban social media, including gaming sites, for under 16s in the UK.

Open Rights Group
@mag @sean
This would be a good start making social media safer for everyone, not just kids. The main problem is that it's not a knee -jerk instant gratification that can be summed up in a sound bite or headline.

@Naich @mag personally I'd be happier if facebook, X, and YouTube were blocked from the UK

They are so bad I'd be glad to see things migrate to something better.

Not saying this should happen - just that without considering wider implications - it would be better for me personally, and my family.