May Likes TorontoHow wholesome are you on the fedi?
| 11/10. Wholesome embodied. | |
| Solidly wholesome. | |
| Fairly wholesome. | |
| A little wholesome. | |
| Not wholesome at all. | |
| Maybe drop the "w". :blobcatdevil: |
Poll ends at .
goth mothling@mayintoronto in my mind I'm dropping the "w" but almost never on the fedi. Maybe that should change. 
Sam Levine@mayintoronto
Me: I'm totally wholesome! Bike! Reading! Baking!
Also me: Self, you told a story of having a crouton come out of your nose a couple of weeks ago. Which devolved into people coming out of the woodwork to comment on weird things they had also blown out of their noses (typically post sneezing).
Me: Oh, right. That.
Me: I'm totally wholesome! Bike! Reading! Baking!
Also me: Self, you told a story of having a crouton come out of your nose a couple of weeks ago. Which devolved into people coming out of the woodwork to comment on weird things they had also blown out of their noses (typically post sneezing).
Me: Oh, right. That.
Scott@mayintoronto Iโm pretty wholesome, but I go for a bit of snarky humour too
Shantell Powell@mayintoronto I've led a very NSFW life. I was a professional naked lady (figure model), burlesque performer, and promoted kink events. I write weird fiction and sometimes weird smut. I photographed BDSMers for design school projects.
@Shanmonster and yet you're so wholesome here too!!!
Gilgwath@Shanmonster @mayintoronto Sounds perfectly wholesome to me!
ZenHeathen ๐จ๐ฆ๐ณ๏ธโ๐@mayintoronto To date, I've been holding up a veneer of respectability pretty well, not counting all the fucking swearing. ๐ Which is to say, no one here knows the real me at all.
@ZenHeathen quit hiding!
@mayintoronto Sometimes, my oversexed, super-flirty, kinky, bi, polyamorous self was too much *for FetLife*. I think I'm going to keep that dialed back here. ๐
@mayintoronto In fact... *Mentioning* that I was there isn't something I've ever said here... So much for keeping those worlds 100% separate.
@ZenHeathen Letting our collective freaks out on a Monday.
@mayintoronto Never quite got into the collective freak, not that I didn't try... Invited to the wrong parties. ๐คญ๐
Jenica Lake เนเธซเธฅเนเธเนเธฅเธ@mayintoronto define wholesome
@MamaLake choose your own adventure tbh.
@mayintoronto I am whole, as a person, the good and the bad and the cumulative of life, I am whole. But to say Iโm all wholeโฆ lifeโs wholeness exists outside of safe for work which maybe is an idea of wholesomeness. Ultimately I am a cookie, a whole cookie, and more.
@MamaLake cookies make us whole, tbh.
Mr Funk E Dude ๐คก@mayintoronto I may have exaggerated a bit.
@Mrfunkedude 11/10 right there.
Spookybot@mayintoronto I don't know, I swear a lot in spanish
Scary Austin@mayintoronto
I would like to be less scary/sweary but Nazis took over my country. Not sure whether anti-Nazi swearing and jokes about the Big Beautiful Obituary count as fully wholesome or not.
I would like to be less scary/sweary but Nazis took over my country. Not sure whether anti-Nazi swearing and jokes about the Big Beautiful Obituary count as fully wholesome or not.
@mayintoronto I give my best not to be too grumpy ๐ซ Probably the happy/grumpy in ratio in my post is a bit too low, idk. Definitely not an asshat though ๐
Farah ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐๐ผ@mayintoronto But how would I know? Isnโt that other peopleโs opinion of me?
@farah I don't care what other people think of you. I care what you think of yourself. โค๏ธ
@mayintoronto Youโre so kind and nice, May! We need more of you in the world ๐
shom@mayintoronto I was going to pick the first option until I cackled out loud at the last option like a deviant so now I'm confused.
@shom Did I make this poll just for that one joke? Mayyyyyybe.
@mayintoronto worth it!
Cat@mayintoronto I put only fairly because sometimes I forget to CW things.
Also, I flirted up a storm with someone who flirted back but I feel like this is wholesome actually
Steve GisselbrechtYou may imagine me singing the song from Grease. I'm not much of a musicals guy but I'll make an exception under the circumstances.
@stevegis_ssg @mayintoronto guess what? For years I thought that musical was called Greece ๐ฌ๐ท
@catmisgivings @mayintoronto Yโall are flirting on Fedi?
@farah @catmisgivings Oh they're such a good friend. Always giving me compliments. Someday maybe we'll be roommates! 
Richard Grant@mayintoronto At last, I find myself in the middle of a bell curve.
@mayintoronto I chose fairly cause I complain a lot but usually PG rated
Amy Maybe@farah @mayintoronto I chose a little because I talk about bra fitting and can get sweary.
@APBBlue @mayintoronto Bra fitting is wholesome. Some of us need to hear about those.
Speaking of bra fitting, I really need to get my done. Iโm currently married to wireless versions because comfort
@farah @mayintoronto If you have a soft tape measure, you can measure yourself! https://www.abrathatfits.org
(This calculator gave me the same size as the shop I went to.)
Ann AnnasI'd say "fairly" but it's hard to know without an outside take
Absolutely depends on audience also
Usually in uptight "conservative" type circles (couldn't avoid them growing up, thankfully I can now) enough of my freak flags fly out unintentionally even when I think I'm being on good behavior people realize sideeye and talk
But in queer spaces I think I'm being super naughty because I'm speaking uninhibited then come to find everyone thinks I'm G rated
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Dave Alvarado@mayintoronto voted "fairly" because I rarely CW and I go absolutely feral on racists here.
@dave wholesomely feral.
@mayintoronto my goal in life is to be the bear.
webhatwhole'some adjective
1 Healthy in body, taste, morals or (Shakespeare) condition
- Pretty much
2 Indicating health
- Good
3 Conducive to bodily or spiritual health
- Reasonable
4Remedial (obsolete)
- Fuck no
5 Propitious (Shakespeare)
- Meh
6 Reasonable, sensible (Shakespeare)
- Reasonableโmaybe; sensibleโnever
PassengerTo my mind, this is something that can only be answered by others: wholesomeness is about perception, not intent.
(May is very wholesome, to me)
(I would be interested in how wholesome people think I am)
Pride Duchess Of Snork@mayintoronto I've not once thought about it, I think
I don't generally post sexual content, or about violence. So maybe I am very wholesome.
I do post some long musings where, in my mind, I'm trying to get beyond conventional or received wisdom, which might be questionable to some.
In my mind I am extremely pro women, queer people, POCs, and marginalized people generally, which I know some would find unwholesome, but fuck them.
11/10 I guess.
Arcadiagt5@mayintoronto @DuchessOfSnork NO LIES DETECTED!
@mayintoronto I won't accept a higher score than you, though!
Melissa BearTrixI try and be an asshat, but I fail ... I have been told I am wholesome ... Giggles
So, I have no idea, I just be me ... Hugz
Hugz & xXx