@mjr @cstross @pluralistic I don't think you'll find many coffee shops in the U.S. without a tip jar or similar.
Yes, I know, it sucks. Yes, I know, we should pay a living wage. Sadly, I am not the decider of such things.
Given that this is the world I live in, I just try to compensate by tipping heavily. Many years ago I had jobs that were "supplemented" by tips, and as long as I'm stuck in this system I'll try to do right by others in the same boat.
@jzb @mjr @cstross @pluralistic
I get what you are saying. I’ve too been that person who worked in hospitality, so yes, even though we don’t always acknowledge it, tipping is a thing in the UK too. My bugbear was that our tips pot was shared 50:50 with the brewery who owned one of the pubs I worked in. This seems very off now…but it’s why I always ask when eating out whether the tips go direct to staff and try to always tip in cash.
@JugglingWithEggs @mjr @cstross @pluralistic Ugh. Yeah, there's a lot of that kind of thing here, too. It's gross and I won't go back to places that do that kind of thing.
We currently live in a pretty small town in the "mountains" of NC. There's a local pizza joint that does pay a living wage, and we make a point to go there or order from there frequently.
We just moved here about a year ago, but we've been going there for years b/c my in-laws live here too. They've had a lot of the same employees for years, which is a pretty good sign.
(It does not, of course, hurt that their pizza is damn good too.)
@JugglingWithEggs @jzb @cstross @pluralistic isn't the non-serving owner taking a share of tips illegal now?
https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/distributing-tips-fairly-statutory-code-of-practice
I'm sure this is among the employee protection laws RUK have pledged to repeal.
@mjr @jzb @pluralistic @cstross
Yep…I would agree, tipping in coffee shops is not common in the UK.
I think the distinction is whether there is table service. If you are ordering at the counter, collecting from the counter (as you would in most UK coffee shops) tipping is not common.
"the owner doesn't pay the workers properly" is the default assumption in the US.