J. Jacoby (gender explorer)

My therapist asked me today about what I'm dressed like when I feel most comfortable.

I couldn't answer the question. There are many environments that I'm in where I'm perfectly comfortable dressed as a cis male. Maybe that also includes women's jeans and a pair of panties. But, general "male-ish" appearance.

There are other times where I've felt comfortable dressed in full femme mode. I've certainly felt my sexiest like that.

That said, I don't think I would want to live full-time as a women. Part of me starting HRT nearly 7 years ago was just to fit better into women's clothing.

I do enjoy being non-binary. When people use the right pronouns for me, it still makes me smile. The "gender" part is easy.

The "how I express myself to the world and be comfortable" part is what I'm working on.

#nonbinary #genderfluid #trans

Jun 5 at 12:25amWeb
Show threadL. A. (they/them)13h ago
@jacobyaudio I think that sounds pretty great. People who have it figured out quickly baffle me. A close friend recently told me they want to transition and they know exactly who they want to be and exactly who they are. It made me question myself. But, I think exploration in itself can be affirming.