ok I know I haven't been around lately, and I'm sorry. i really only have the energy to keep up with one social media

shit's gotten really bad for me and I need help

i took a leap of faith and moved in (very quickly) with someone full of promises and praise. i shed 60% of my belongings, including most of my furniture (re: my bed), and uhauled my ass over.

i got here and spent money trying to make a semi-private space more suitable, putting myself in debt, and working to pay it off quickly with what I was saving in rent

about a month after I officially moved in, it was deemed I'm no longer partner material.

i was told I could stay as long as I need. as much as I hate it here, at least I have a place inside to sleep that's affordable, and I could take a month or three to get myself resituated

i was told they'd support me through my near future surgery recovery

i was told I'm still cared for, and I'm still part of the family

i left for a week to tour with my choir & have a lil vacay, and upon coming back I'm being asked when tf I'll be getting out

words are cheap, I guess. why mean things when you say stuff when you can just be full of shit

anyways. I'm desperate. i need help. i have received about as much money this entire year so far as I made in a month 2 years ago. I need a large influx of cash so I can resituate myself ASAP

anything helps. shares are greatly appreciated

i would also greatly appreciate any help finding a place or roommates or a van to sleep in. if you're in the capital region of Alberta (re: Edmonton), please reach out

UPDATE:

I found safety at a friend's, and hauled my ass over there in a hurry. shortly after leaving I receive a message from ex: "you're blocked & locked out. we'll pack up your stuff and you can pick up in a week or two"

so much for a slow move out. every promise they've made has been broken, smashed, and ground into the floor with their heel.

my goal has been met this month, and since I'm on disability I have an income cap before my benefits are effected and we get diminishing returns. please direct any funds elsewhere

with my upcoming surgery, and needing to find aftercare and recovery support, and also trying to resituate my future, I will need to hit my max income every month for a bit so I can build savings for my surgery

in a few days I'll put my link back

thank you to everyone who's shared and read my story and contributed

UPDATE 2:

it's now June which means my limits have been reset so it's time to start raising money again

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