I think #SQLAlchemy is a magnificent software project, worthy of great respect. But oh my god is it sapping my energy on a hobby project.
The biggest point of friction is that for various reasons, I want my domain objects to be driven by attrs plus cattrs. It's a combination I know well, and it lends itself perfectly to some of the things I'm doing.
But of course, the SQLAlchemy ORM wants to be the source of truth for my object graph. There being multiple layers at which you can do any given thing is also pretty exhausting.
I'm considering my alternatives. Do I keep SA but not use the ORM? Fall back to executing SQL statements directly via a lower-level, simpler library? Use a completely different type of datastore?
