@spirillen
Even at the risk of overstepping... Is there a specific reason why you haven't had sex for so long? You don't have to answer if it's too personal.

As for the girl at school: She was just afraid that she would be ostracized, too. In the backwater town where we lived, that fascist mentality runs deep. Also in our family.

Maria is still on X.. and on Facebook as well... because of her colleagues and friends. I’m a pioneer on Mastodon... maybe at least David will follow eventually.
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