@EUCommission the article I quoted pinpoints the major issue with this stance: some union countries are currently enforcing laws against lesbian, gay, bi and transgender people. You missed the opportunity to actually enforce progressive laws union-wise to prevent the worse, but chose not to. To some, you say it’s « the best option », and to some others, you say it’s « the only option, we don’t have that kind of power » (basically what’s been reported by Le Monde), and this misinformation is truly embarrassing at your level o responsibility.
I also take issue with your online presence and nature of your posts: either you claim to protect LGBTQI+ folks in the EU and act accordingly; or you let every country decide for themselves, but in this case accept that the Union isn’t safe for LGBTQI+ people. You cannot just opt for the second option and then post memes about how ✨ MARVELOUS ✨ your policies are.
Tl;dr: you’re right to feel uncomfortable about all of this, and frankly your (lack of) policies show cowardice on your end.