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Nobody talks about why the most generous people in any friend group are often the ones with the fewest people checking on them, and it isn't that they hide their needs, it's that being the giver became the only role anyone learned to see them in – VegOut
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Nobody talks about why the most generous people in any friend group are often the ones with the fewest people checking on them, and it isn't that they hide their needs, it's that being the giver became the only role anyone learned to see them in
Generosity becomes a trap when the people around you can only see you in one role—not because you hide your struggles, but because consistency blinds them to any other version of yourself.