bondlight3 relationship states that might explain why you're stuck:
1️⃣ Emotionally active but guarded
Feelings exist, but hesitation limits movement.
2️⃣ Inconsistent but not disconnected
Contact is irregular, but the thread hasn't broken.
3️⃣ Pulling away, but feelings remain
Distance increases, but that doesn't mean it's over.
Which one resonates with your situation?