violet08_my Lemmy modus operandi & why I end up deleting an account and making a new one
reach for the stars buddy
Wouldn’t you delete the account and make a new one with a different name if the over sharing became an issue ? Also, I’ve not seen all your posts but unless there is something identifying in them, you’re probably good to get doing your thing.
adr1anAnd this is why I (almost) never comment/post… Can’t overshare if you don’t start sharing!
Stop worrying about oversharing. I won’t speak for everyone, but I’ve been practicing, and I’m pretty sure I can take everything you’ve got.
Tbf, I’m pretty open in 1:1 situations, but not public (internet or IRL)…
Side note, that’s a helluva double entendre given your fedi instance heh
It’s missing a stwp after vow of silence where I ghost my friends for a month.
lol, a month… I lost all the buddies I had all thru high school and a little after cuz during Covid I kinda intentionally unintentionally ghosted everybody, haven’t made solid efforts really since. I’ve gotten a lot closer to my family and my gfs family but sometimes I wish I had a good friend. Some of them are legit scary people now tho so I kinda never really regret my decisions I just need a bro that’s not my actual brother lmao.
PaleRider
skankhunt42What did you over share last time?
Doesn’t that kind of defeat the purpose of a “fresh start”?
Looks like the next step in his plan to me. Just trying to help /s
Grail
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ジンit’s really annoying to have to block someone half a dozen times yk
Track_ShovelWe’ve all been there. Believe it or not, I’m pretty introverted, yet I like to chat, at least in a ‘small group’. The internet feels kind of small because each thread you’re in only has a handful of people commenting, so you feel like you’re talking to a small group, despite it being disproportionately lurkers.
At some point you kind of stop caring, or at least that’s been my experience.
Same, just takes me way longer to cycle through.