Glyph2d ago

RE: https://mastodon.social/@glyph/116240274811219588

One can generalize my thoughts about "junior engineers" to "adolescents" in many cases. Children *are* different from adults, but far less different than popular discourse would have you believe. *Most* of the idea that they are a special class of person whose agency should be tightly controlled by their betters, is a self-soothing fantasy *by* those "betters" about their own deficiencies, not about risks to children.

To wit: "age gating" anything on the Internet is solving the wrong problem.

Show threadGlyph2d ago

Engagement-maximizing has a whole bunch of problems. It creates a nonconsensual, exploitative feedback loop. It's bad for kids; it's also bad for adults. It does not appear to be meaningfully *differently* bad for kids vs. adults.

It is justifiable to age-restrict things that kids are A) especially vulnerable to (cars) or B) developmentally affected by (alcohol & drugs).

Neither seems to be true for "social media". (Source, vaguely: If Books Could Kill's episode on The Anxious Generation)

Show threadGlyph2d ago
Anyone interested in solving the problem of e.g. Instagram-driven anorexia would be much better off banning Instagram's machine-learning algorithms whose entire job is to get vulnerable young women trapped in cyclical problem behaviors, not getting involved in draconian liability regimes where it's OK to do this to a young woman who is 22 but illegal to do to one who is 17 even if the technique is equally effective on both
Show threadGlyph2d ago
But, even that framing is still "othering" the problem (assuming that your representative is not a 22-year-old woman). The best way to think about this from a regulator's perspective is to ask the potential regulator: how do you want the regulation to impact YOUR behavior, rather than kids'? If the choice is "stop allowing Instagram to trick kids" vs. "stop allowing kids to access instagram" this feels like a nuanced debate; making it "stop allowing instagram to trick ME" the discourse sharpens.
Show threadJP2d ago

@glyph one very notable failure mode of this approach is when dealing with a certain class of person (the ones that commonly reduce to “ghoul”), who *do not want to be impacted by regulation*. approaches to handle the regulatory design also need to be cognisant of this dynamic, and have an explicit way to deal

otherwise we get the VW and ARB type outcomes (to wit: regulatory capture, or worse)

Show threadGlyph1d ago
@froztbyte presumably such people still want to live in a world with breathable air, though; this is not a failure of personalization but a failure of short-term thinking. as mark baum put it: it never works
Show threadJP1d ago

@glyph you may know that and I may know that, but there is a certain degree of magical thinking employed by them that makes them think they’re immune

and I’m not saying this at armchair distance: I have *directly* dealt with some of these types - I’ve seen the patterns and plans, heard the words used, the actions taken

the dangerous thing about them is how very willing (and, often: able) they are to expend resources (effort, cash, etc) in furtherance of outside-context outcomes

Show threadGlyph1d ago
@froztbyte oh I have no doubt that this happens, I watch the news. I am just saying “love your neighbor as yourself” doesn’t become invalid advice just because someone has decided that the way they “love themselves” is to inflate the value of petrochemical financial securities and their derivatives. they’re just intentionally misunderstanding the rule.
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@glyph I don’t think your thesis / final sentence is correct, fwiw

the kind of person I’m talking about is not one that misunderstands anything involved here. rather, the opposite: in all the cases I’ve seen they’ve spent extraordinary amounts of effort on understanding what’s permissible and doable, and how to go about getting their own way *despite* that system. in that way, they understand the mechanisms and structures far more than most

Apr 13 at 3:22pmWeb
Show threadJP1d ago

@glyph sorry I know this sounds fucking grim

but … I think it’s valuable to recognize and acknowledge, and learn how to deal. because these are some of the key mechanisms I’ve seen these ghouls do bad shit with over the last however many years I’ve been in a position to see what’s going on