Sorry for the slow reply, I’ve been meaning to get back to you for nearly two weeks now, but I wanted to wait to collect my thoughts and to be in the right kind of head space to address your comment.
At the end of the day, I’m a flawed human, I have all sorts of feelings and emotions. Sometimes, I get upset, or angry. I try to avoid engaging with people when I’m feeling that way, but again, I’m not always successful at the things I attempt. I can only try my best, and apologize when I’m not doing my best, so I’m sorry about that.
Now, to be fair, I’m sure you would agree that there are some things which are just absurdly wrong - for example, if someone was arguing that the earth is flat, for example, I might just dismiss that argument as ridiculous - not necessarily because I can’t disprove it, but because it’s not in my interests to engage with that argument in good faith - maybe because I’d see it as a waste of time, or because I know that it’s a topic that I find personally distressing and want to avoid so that I don’t get too worked up.
I agree that dismissing claims as absurd is very unconvincing, but sometimes people just believe different things from us, and that we can’t always convince people to change their minds. That’s just something that we all need to accept to remain sane in this world, especially if we’re inclined towards arguing with others on the Internet.
The truth is, I was raised by someone who held extremely racist, white supremacist beliefs, and that person would regularly use evolutionary psychology and similar arguments to justify their beliefs. It was also a very abusive environment, as you can probably imagine. So this is a really tender area for me, which is why you saw the reaction you got.
I am not accusing you of believing in any of those things, I’m sure you don’t, I’m sure you’re a very kind person who cares about rationality and doing the right thing, so please don’t misunderstand me - what I’m trying to explain is that the topic is kind of triggering for me, and that there are lots of people who use similar arguments for, what I’d consider to be, evil ends.
But usually that is done to sensationalize things. Not much of that happening in the area of ancient societies.
Actually, it happens all the time, that’s one of the reasons I got a bit upset with you - I see it all the time and not only do I find it extremely frustrating as someone with a lot of knowledge of ancient human civilization but it’s very often some far-right crank nonsense. The paleo diet is probably the best known example of this, but a lot of scientific racists use ancient human civilizations to justify their racism, western chauvinism, white supremacy, and so on. Heck, there’s a reason fascists always seem so obsessed with the Roman Empire. Carl Benjamin calls himself Sargon of Akkad for a reason.
Anyways, with all of that said, I’d like to share a link to a section on an anarchist FAQ - Does revolutionary Spain show that libertarian socialism can work in practice? - I think it’s pretty interesting and demonstrates a historical example of a functional anarchist society. For a functioning anarchist society today, you could look into the Zapatista movement in Mexico, too.