@alice I don't. I agree with your general premise, that's it's a overwhelming and horrific problem that is egregiously common. And given how most say it's worse as a teen, I avoided it by femme presenting much later.

I only mention this because it's a weird feeling when people talk about this kind of thing as if it is a universal fundamental femme experience and where does that leave the few of us who are fortunate to have dodged that bullet?

It's better than the alternative but also othering.

@ellesaurus @alice You know those assholes in Washington currently trying to legislate our bodies, objectify us, turn our existence into a "fetish", and use us as political scape goats?

that's a form of sexual harassment/assault, just probably not the more direct kind you are envisioning.

Even if you escape the more direct and personal assault, you can't really exist as a femme presenting person in North America without incurring the abuse of patriarchy directed at your body.