No, we don't need to make the tent bigger.

We need to make the tent safer.

@neil who are we subtooting today?

(I'm out of the loop - the weather is beautiful)
@liskin @neil
The epic subtoot 🧵 that may not require a referent is
https://retro.social/@ajroach42/116358147983631584
Andrew (Television Executive) (@[email protected])

I read possibly the most rage-bait-y take yesterday, and I almost responded. But I'm trying to get better about not getting sucked in to rage bait, so I didn't respond. But I did click through to the author's profile and see that he wasn't just some random user, he's an executive at the non-profit that manages Mastodon software development. He came in with a very motte and bailey argument, where he made an absolutely outrageous and indefensible claim based on very little evidence, and then quickly covered it with a more defensible and evidence based claim. But all through his post and the replies was the paternalistic, guilt tripping, shameful tone policing, again clearly and intentionally designed to conflate his pet issue with larger issues and goad people into conversation. I have very little interest in discussing the topic he was discussing (ostensibly "journalists using the fediverse" but actually "AI proponents feeling unwelcome on the fediverse") but I do want to talk about emotional manipulation on social media, because it's a growing problem.

Retro Social
@neil and accept some people won’t like the tent and won’t want to stay here.
@neil @c0debabe big tents are inherently unsafe in storms
@neil It's not a tent, it's a campsite. What people do in the other tents doesn't concern us so long as they don't make too much noise.
@neil Can you fit a bar and some comfy sofas while you're at it?
@neil it all has the same energy as some guy who butts in to your group of friends at the bar and aggressively starts chatting up one of the women and when you tell him to fuck off he says "mind your own business"