Friendica – A Decentralized Social Network

https://friendi.ca/

friendica – A Decentralized Social Network

I’m interested in self-hosting a small social network for my family and close friends. Something to get us off facebook/instagram. If anybody is more familiar with the options, is this what you’d recommend?

You could use this: https://github.com/Qbix/Platform

Example: https://freecities.app

Video demos: https://vimeo.com/1141492621/23e8b84b8b

Disclaimer: I built it. Lovingly, over 15+ years.

GitHub - Qbix/Platform: Free, open-source community platform, decentralized alternative to Big Tech. For apps that empower people and unite communities.

Free, open-source community platform, decentralized alternative to Big Tech. For apps that empower people and unite communities. - Qbix/Platform

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I tossed together a mattermost server. It’s effectively a slack cove and works pretty great.
It's been a decade, but I had a very similar experience with Mattermost. It would be, if perhaps not where I would end up today, then certainly where I would start looking.

If you also want to host or build interesting social apps, you should definitely do an isolated atproto / Bluesky service!
https://blueskydirectory.com/

As for actually doing this... running a PDS and relay isn't that hard, and the red dwarf web client is online and can be configured to point to whatever appview you want. There's significantly less experience running your own appview, but there are options & folks are happy to help.