Advice to young people, the lies I tell myself (2024)

https://jxnl.co/writing/2024/06/01/advice-to-young-people/

Advice to Young People, The Lies I Tell Myself - Jason Liu

Discover insightful advice for young people, emphasizing choices, confidence, and personal growth through lived experiences.

> How to Get a Job

Idk about this, I have gotten almost every job I have ever had on cold-apply, including internships. The only one that wasn't that way was talking to a (internal) recruiter in college.

Don't discount that path. I did not have the best grades or anything, but (IMO) a mix of skills that was a good fit for the job at hand and confidence I could apply them.

Most of the people you will interact with in the (corporate) world have no understanding of their own understanding, and are operating in unknown unknown territory. Being confident, demonstrating competence in something jointly known/unknown or known/known helps a ton.

And I am exactly the opposite - aside from my first job out of university 10 years ago I have gotten every job since through connections
That's where the author is, and it's fine. IMO, these people tend to be better represented online, because getting a job through connections/influence/visibility is necessarily going to be louder than clicking submit on a form.