A huge difference between me and Kristi Noem's hubby is that I'm actually trans and not a fetishist, and I'm also not a bigot against crossdressers and trans people in my public life.

I just feel normal having tits, and the thought doesn't turn me on. My brain expects me to have them, and I had sadness and distress for the longest time at not having them.

I also don't feel degraded by being a woman. It makes me happy. I felt extremely degraded living as a male.

I hate to say it, but I have more in common with kristi noem herself than I do with her husband

@burnoutqueen They are both fetishists: one for violence and one for femininity. Given that Christie Noem needs to force her fetish on others, I don’t see how that’s “better”.

Please don’t shoot puppies.

@steff

im saying that I am not a man, and I cannot pretend to understand what it is like to be a man

@burnoutqueen I am a woman who revels in her femininity at times, wrap myself in it and love it. And I can understand how men can sublimate that desire into erotic or fetishistic desire. Yet, I can’t understand why another woman would want to cos-play masculine bravado to such a degree that she’s willing dehumanize and perpetrate violence on others to prove she’s not like “other girls”