“When reality coincides at last with something we have longed for, fitting perfectly with our dreams, it can cover them up entirely and become indistinguishable from them, as two symmetrical figures placed against one another seem to become one; whereas, so as to give our joy its full intensity of meaning, we would actually prefer every detail of our desires […] to retain the prestige of still being immaterial, so as to be more certain that this really is what we desired.”
#proust
Yes!
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