A huge difference between me and Kristi Noem's hubby is that I'm actually trans and not a fetishist, and I'm also not a bigot against crossdressers and trans people in my public life.
I just feel normal having tits, and the thought doesn't turn me on. My brain expects me to have them, and I had sadness and distress for the longest time at not having them.
I also don't feel degraded by being a woman. It makes me happy. I felt extremely degraded living as a male.