I am fairly recently disabled (all you able-bodied folks out there, yes, it can happen to you). I am mobile with a walker, but getting around is not easy and pretty painful. I am pretty sure my husband doesn't see it that way, but I can't shake feeling like I'm a burden.
@annporterla.bsky.social Lindsay has an auto-immune disorder which flares up and makes it difficult for her to get around. Based on my experience, the only thing we feel is helplessness because we can't fix the problem. You're definitely not a burden.