I mean I can do this all day...

we're upset about Iranian violence because we're looking at a very expensive airplane with no tail section. They're upset about US violence because they're fishing their children out of the rubble that used to be a school.

There is no equivalency here. We are not the aggrieved party, pretty much no matter what Iran does in response to the war crimes we're committing. When people start MURDERING YOUR CHILDREN, you fight back.