@EricIndiana I had clues well before that something was going on when she wouldn’t visit us because we were ‘too close to thr Mexican border’ . (We live in northern San Diego county). We tried to communicate but when the 2016 christmas card came saying how trump would fix everything I knew in my heart it was over. I was so depressed that season. But when the Women’s march came in January, it filled me with hope. There are so many other folks out there who understand the stakes and are brave enough to stand up. That really saved me. And I appreciate when I see other families going strong. So thanks for your post. It means a lot. And sorry to drag you thru that story. 😺