This is a quick thread about the one behaviour that, over and over, has saved me on my rail trips

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Proactively finding the train manager before they find you
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If you *ever* have some sort of grey area or absence of clarity, do this. *Always* do this

Due to the total chaos trying to get to Bourgogne this morning, yesterday I made an error

It was not me, but my partner, who managed to secure literally the last ticket available on the TGV Paris-Montbard

So it is her name on the ticket, not mine

There was no way to change the name, and cancelling the ticket was too risky - because there was no guarantee I would then get the spot freed up

I have seen fines dished out on SNCF trains to people doing this in the past - but when the train manager found *them*

But I proactively went to find them, BEFORE THEY FOUND ME

I had all the documents on my laptop - the ticket, my reduction card, my partner's reduction card (both are the same, so the price she paid would have been the price I would have paid) and explained the situation

Strictly speaking, the train manager said, this is not allowed (and he is correct), but you came and found me and I accept your explanation

Now whether this should be the rule is itself questionable. Whether indeed a train should be compulsory reservation is also questionable (and despite it being "sold out" on ticket portals, there are a few seats - presumably no shows)

But to simply get yourself to your destination in situations where you're not strictly in the right, but there is a reason, speaking to the train manager before they find you ALWAYS HELPS

@jon Yes. Respecting the position of power they have, even just subconsciously, and proactively acting on that typically opens up a world of generosity. This is a general rule in my experience. Especially when you allow them to explain something you already know but you listen intently to their version :) People are good. Almost always.

@jwildeboer @jon
> Respecting the position of power they have,

how about not respecting someone having power over you whos able to legally steal from you over stupid shit

and i dont consider being at the mercy of someone else to be "good" or "generous" either.

@Li Do whatever you think is right and deal with the consequences. This thread was about avoiding a fine due to crazy regulations, not a call for revolution ;) @jon
@jwildeboer @Li Right. And ultimately whether you like the rules or not isn’t the central point here. It’s how to handle situations when you’re not quite in compliance.

@Li @jwildeboer @jon That person can themselves though be just as trapped by the system because if they allow your "incorrect" ticket and then an inspector boards the train they will get into trouble.

Sometimes it pays to work out who is your actual opponent and where to kick them later.