It's hard to take an #anime recommendation without knowing what else the recommender likes or doesn't

what are YOUR 10 "taste calibration" anime to help someone get a feel for your tastes?

5 anime you especially like and 5 you especially don't. The ones you'd want Someone to keep in mind as you give them a recommendation, or before they give you one.

These aren't your top 5 or bottom 5. These are the ones strangers could look at a get a quick feeling of your tastes.

My likes?
* Bucchigiri?!
* Blood Blockade Battlefront
* Dead Mount Death Play
* Tomo-Chan Is A Girl!
* Pluto

My dislikes?
* Frieren
* Lycoris Recoil
* Shangri-la Frontier
* SPY x FAMILY
* Rent A Girlfriend

It's not perfect but I can constellate a lot of my other likes & dislikes from this list

So what's yours?
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@NaClKnight eeeish this is hard!

I'm not sure I'd be able to come up with a list easy? I read and watch way too many things, my tastes are now more along the lines of "this thing needs to say something and have a point" and not much else.

Like, if I'd just look at your list, both. Both lists work for me.

If I think about stuff I dislike, it's going to be extremely particular:
- Trigun, because the premise is great and then it goes into what I label "sad Christian noises" and goes nowhere
- That one camping isekai, because it's obvious "forget about your modern life and all its problematic things, shh, shhhhh"
- loads of the generic high school romance animes, because they're often sexist, slut-shaming, conservative garbage that maintain and strengthen gender roles in patriarchy. I like the good ones though. There's loads of good ones among the garbage.
- Scissor Seven, because it smells of "we can't have any female presenting characters because that's not done, and if we do it will absolutely be a mine of sexist jokes", like so many Chinese animations.
- I like a lot about JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, but it. It's so boring. It's SO BORING. I can only watch it if I'm sick.

For stuff I like:
- My Uncle From Another World is an example of an isekai I like, even though it's got a lot of the stuff I dislike in isekai's, too. It does enough unique and good with heart.
- Spy X Family specifically for slice of life with a plot that scratches a 70s itch I'd forgotten I had.
- Cannon Busters is one I'm watching atm that feels fun, has great animation, knows what it's about and feels a lot like OVAs from the 80s and 90s I like
- That one freaking adorable cute high school love story between tiny tiny cute girl and very large and tall good boy, I love it so much but cannot remember the name
- Samurai Champloo, for the music, animation, story, characters, everything

I might have to find a pattern, hmm. 'Cause atm I'm not seeing one, just that I really like stories and fun action stuff and art, and don't like things that either push -isms or don't have a heart. Or don't know what pacing is (JoJo).

@len Thanks! Yeah, I struggled with my pics as well. It was hard to pick one series to stand for several similar series that I like.

I listed BBB but that have easily been Kaiju No 8 or Fire Force or Undead Unluck or Black Clover. Each of those has different implications though, so which to pick?

More difficult still was when I like an anime but not its near peers, like liking Samurai Champloo but not Bebop, or From Me To You and Kaguya-Sama Love Is War but not most other high school romances. The latter was on my original list before I traded it for Tomo-chan.

I think I have a 50% hit rate across your lists but split among your likes and dislikes. I have enjoyed most of the JoJos for instance, and I already mentioned liking SC.

Rather than debate anyone's likes or dislikes, I love the idea of "do we like the same things for different reasons? Or different things for the same reasons?" that can make or break recommendations and bonding over shows.

Thanks for playing along

@NaClKnight yeah, the questions you have are the questions I love having! Because for a lot of things the like/dislike reason can just come down to "ah, yeah, I get that". Some things bother other people more than others, and some things weigh more as pros for different people. And since I read so many things I'm interested in seeing what things matter to people, that way I can recommend stuff more accurately!

I'm interested in why you have the Cowboy Bebop aversion, because honestly even though I like a lot about it, and see why others like it a ton, there's something that scratches me in the wrong way (which I still haven't figured out, it might be the sorta slice of life it has that doesn't quite click right? Or that the multicultural society really isn't all that multicultural, it's been a while, I'm basing it off my residual feelings). I like Samurai Champloo way more.

Fire Force could have made its way onto my like list, same as Black Clover or even Black Lagoon. Maybe instead of Cannon Busters. They all kinda fall into the committing hard to a thing and revelling in it category. Wondering if I should sub Spy X Family for Mushishi or Natsume's Book of Friends instead - I think I want that slot to convey I like slice of life with something extra to it, as well as a focus on figuring out how family works. And I don't think I have anything on there conveying that I actually really love supernatural things, too... Hunter X Hunter could easily make it on there, too.

I might revisit this after talking about it with my spouse, haha.

@len Exactly this.

Fire Force is a really difficult one cause I LOVE it UNTIL Tamaki shows up. It feesl like she only exists to fall on her ass and flash her panties or otherwise end up nude. The show also leans a bit too hard into "Maki is buff and that's gross for women." Those keep it in my problematic fave category lol.

Dead Mount Death Play feels more neutral in its portrayal. Almost everyone woman in the series is extremely, viciously curvy, and no one cares. It's not regularly remarked on. No one gets heart eyes and starts drooling immediately. They're just.. like thatβ„’. It feels better.

Bebop missed me because I watched it too late for Spike to be cool. He feels laser focused on being everything a 15 year old would idolize, but I didn't watch the show until I was like 25. I just didn't click with the dynamic he, Faye, and Jet have. Surprisingly, the cast of Champloo is younger but the show feels less apologetic about their flaws. Yes, it works out for them, and they overcome the situations those flaws lead them into, but Mugen feels less like he's intended to be just cool.

SPY x FAMILY is one where I think you liked it for the reason I don't. A slice of life with something extra is a great description but I was hoping for an action show with heart. There's far too much Anya and her hijinks in the show for me to stay interested. The show knows what it wants to be and after S1 I could no longer pretend that it was going to be what I wanted to watch. Yor and Lloyd's dayjobs were the only parts I wanted.

Having 5+5 slots to convey tastes and maybe nuance is hard, but I feel like expanding it to a Top 10 would be waaaay overkill. At most, maybe a 7+7.

@NaClKnight That is exactly my problem with Fire Force, too!! It'll stay in my problematic faves for the same reason. The only reason it's not in Scissor Seven's category for me is that the positives in it outweigh the negatives for me (I would have liked Scissor Seven so much if I hadn't already come across that kinda story-telling and gotten the immediate ick from it ), and it does have women in it that get to have characters.

Dead Mount Death Play is one I have not read yet but after a quick look I think I should, seems like something I'd like a lot.

Aaaah yeah. I watched it when I was... 20? I think? Spike was a sad character to me, not really a cool one. Whole thing was soaked in sadness, lots of connections that didn't connect all the way and led to the end that it had. Def agree with Champloo being less apologetic about flaws, it's something I like a lot about it. Might be something to that comparison, too - you gotta face your flaws to overcome them.

Oof yeah, going into Spy X Family for action only would lead to disappointment! It's great if you're there for slice of life but you also like action, not that great the other way around.

Top Ten would be too much! The low amount makes it hard but more useful, makes you think more about what you want to communicate. I wonder what I could pick to also convey my love of silly earnestness, Toei Spiderman comes to mind but I can't choose that if we're only sticking to anime!
@len @NaClKnight Aw geez, what a topic. Len's spouse here! I really like the idea of the top and bottom 5, because I have several anime that are very similar but I love some and hate the others. Fantastic idea! (And fully agreed on Fire Force, too, it's so good, when it isn't being stupid :'3)

I think my 5 likes would be:
One Piece
Hunter x Hunter
Mod Psycho 100
Ranma 1/2
And heaven help me but I think I need to put Spice and Wolf as #5, lmao  

And my 5 dislikes would be:
Naruto
Jojo's
Devilman Crybaby
Most Isekai, but very specifically a second, dedicated slot for:
Re:Zero. I despise this show; it is everything it should not be.

But yeah, if I only have the first list, someone would think "Oh, you like shonen action series like One Piece and Hunter x Hunter, so I'll recommend Naruto and Bleach!" Like. No. Yes, I like shonen action series, but only Hunter x Hunter falls into that, for me. And Hunter x Hunter is doing interesting things and constantly developing its characters. One Piece is great because it's queer and punk and I like these little goobers and their pirate ship, and they're all very good people, and they build up community and trust wherever they go. Mob is similar, honestly. You're telling me you think I should watch generic, unplanned mush like Bleach? No! It has no character work!

Ranma and Isekai/Re:Zero are also kind of opposites. They both have kind of a harem thing going on, but. Good happy gender shenanigans vs. self-important misogynist boys who are somehow still the heroes. Fun action that leads to understanding vs. hateful selfish violence. There's a world of difference. So this like and dislike list helps clarify a lot of potential misunderstandings. I like it, lol. Great stuff.