MariahI debated with myself to even post this, just because I know that its easy especially these days for words to be twisted to fit other people's agendas, no matter how much prefacing you do in an effort to explain yourself. I'm fully aware that some folk might come at me and I'm prepared to defend my stance even though I shouldn't have to, but I've got a lot on my mind so let's go. This came about because of the new Harry Potter HBO Series. here we go with my prefacing. I'm part of the LGBTQIA community. I'm an ally to trans folks. I have trans friends. I don't agree with JKR and her opinions, just like I don't agree with most of the crap happening in the world around me. Here's where people might come at me. I'm going to watch HP when it comes out. I've been reading the audible full cast versions, too. If someone thinks I'm horrible then that's not my problem. Yall,. There is a lot of actual bullshit going on in the world right now. If watching a series you grew up with is what brings you joy? Who the hell are we to say anything about that. If you tell me, Mariah you're supporting the agenda if you give money, in the case of audible or watch, in the case of HBO Max, that's your stance and I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm going to get my joy in any way I can find it, and really you should to, friends and if watching or reading Harry potter again is what you want to do? Go for it. Look, I eat the shit out of Chick-fil-a and I'm aware of the horrible shit they support, but once the money leaves my hands, it's not my money anymore. I just want my damn chicken. Maybe that's not the best way of looking at it, but that's always how I've seen things. I'm only one person. If I decide not to watch Harry Potter or eat my chicken, someone else is ready to fill in the gap. If you feel you have to not watch potter for your own sanity, I support that, too, just please. Please don't make someone feel bad if they decide to. There's enough shit going on right now without more shade being thrown.
Rider Pestilence@MariahL Well said. I have pretty similar thoughts on things like this.
@RiderPestilence I'm not against if someone wants to boycott, I support whatever someone does, but if I choose not to then that's my thing and if I'm going to get eaten alive for it, then clearly people don't have anything better to do. Had x's last year who drug me through the dirt, the day when there was that boycott in the states against online services, so UberEats, Amazon, pretty much anything that meant you were spending money on it, so yes, uber, too. I wanted a burger and I got my damn burger and I didn't hear the end of it. Nevermind them, but the disability community at large got ribbed if they couldn't just stop their lives that day. It was unnecessary.
@MariahL I definitely agree. People get way too obsessed and upset over shit that just doesn't matter, considering everything going on. Like, you know, world war 3 and the fact that if we keep up the fucking planet won't be livable in 50 years or so.
@MariahL And yet idiots are all on the socials like "reduce your convenience because someone got upset! Stand up to the companies! As soon as we find a bad thing about someone popular, or who has made something people enjoy, all of a sudden that thing is bad! And you're bad if you participate in any way!" Even though some of us have no bloody choice. This is one of many reasons I don't associate with people in general any more.
@RiderPestilence I look at it like this. Everybody. Literally everyone has opinions. Not all opinions are good, and yeah it sucks to know that an author who wrote a series that was loved by a lot of people is a shitty human being, but this is where artist from art separation comes in. This might sound weird, but it's not Harry's fault his creator is a cunt. He's a fictional character but he and his universe are innocent. I would be devistated if I found out that Peter V. Brett, an author I adore was homophobic or something, but his univers and his art I'd still love and consume. it's not the demon cycle and its spinnoff's characters' faullt, see.
@MariahL Yep. Our thoughts are similar. I went through that thought process when the guitarist for a band I like was caught at the DC riots a few years ago. Artist does not equal art. And yeah the band broke up over it, but I still listen to them. I saw a lot of fans saying they were selling their albums and stuff, deleting them off their playlists. Not me. That saying "All our heroes have feet of clay" has always made sense to me.