Poly, dating someone really hung up on a guy who doesn't care[??]

So I (22F) am dating Aiko. I have been for about 4 years. We are also engaged and have been for about 10 months. When I moved near my online friend…

“Communicate!” Well, Dave won’t because he is “busy” supposedly

“They should break up!” I can’t make him do anything, Will knows the red flags 🚩 but he doesn’t wanna break up. He really loves this guy

I mean you’re not dating Dave from the sounds of it. Their relationship sounds independent from yours and Will’s, so it seems like this is just something Will will have to process himself IMO.

I’m not even really sure of the question here lol. I also have only limited experience in poly so take that for what it’s worth

Makes sense, I just want to help. But I get it
I suppose being with depressed people isn’t easy. It might drag down people who are in close proximity. Sometimes severely. I heard you can’t force them to get help. They (more or less) must be willing to get help out of their own motivation. And you really don’t want to lose interest in life and your loved ones at 26yo. So maybe they should get some help, if they’re really depressed. Someone could tell them there’s helplines available to call.