Conflicted on whether to take Plan B after he supposedly came outside during unprotected sex

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Conflicted on whether to take Plan B after he supposedly came outside during unprotected sex - Lemmy.World

Hi, please be kind with me. I’m feeling really vulnerable and conflicted about this. I had a bit too much to drink and had unprotected sex with a guy who was sober and came on my back, but it also got on the bed. I was too out of it to remember the exact timing but he said there’s no need to take plan B. I’m not on any birth control. I’ve taken plan B twice before and read stories of how awful it is. I did feel very depressed and overwhelmed in the weeks after taking it, but that could also be explained by stressors that I was dealing with at the time. I’m worried about the side effects, especially considering this would be my third time taking it. Should I take plan B? Can anyone who has taken it multiple times share about the side effects and their experiences with it? Is the pull-out method less risky than I’m thinking it is, or is this not worth the gamble even if I didn’t need Plan B? A pregnancy would be a huge disruption, and I don’t even want to imagine it.

The pull out method is not reliable, don’t gamble on it. Don’t trust guys who gamble on it.

www.webmd.com/sex/…/pull-out-withdrawal

Please use protection. If you’re not prepared for the possibility of a child, take plan B now, rather than have an abortion later.

Consider contraceptive pill or an IUD, but for all random sex you really should be using a condom to protect against Sexually Transmitted Diseases.

Please practice sex responsibly. If you can’t, you definitely do not have the capacity to deal with the responsibility of a child.

Pull Out Method (Withdrawal)

The pull-out method, also called the withdrawal method, is when a man takes his penis out of a woman's vagina before he ejaculates so fewer sperm get inside. Learn more about the effectiveness, how it works, benefits, and disadvantages of the pull-out method.

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Very well said. Thank you so much for sharing