One way to get the point across

https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/65906560

Thai food in Thailand is nowhere near as spicy as “Thai Spicy” or even “Hot” Thai food in the states, in my experience. Some places I went it approaches or slightly exceeds “Hot”, but on the whole I think the spiciness of Thai food is way overblown.

I don’t travel, or do anything. No passport, never been on a plane. Thailand is the one place I want to go, and eat my way from one end to the other.

Maybe sometime in the future when the US sucks less (hopefully). I’m too ashamed to be from here right now to travel abroad.

If that’s what’s holding you back, don’t worry. Thai people are very chill and kind on the whole. Also the economy is very dependent on tourism, so dealing with westerners is part of that. And, the US has not fucked Thailand over anywhere near as much as the surrounding countries (vietnam & cambodia, mostly, but even those folks are extremely gracious). People will appreciate you if you are kind, polite, and try to follow local customs.
It’s not the only thing… just an excuse. I have tons. I have a 3 year old. I don’t have any vacation funds saved. I don’t think my wife would enjoy the food the way I would. I really would like to go someday, maybe for a couple of weeks. Maybe in 5-10 years.