Getting help…

...is hard work... ...but hopefully all worth it... As I've recently shared with you all here, I'm trying to get some help. For a long time, I've tried to make it on my own. And, after many hard struggles, I have had to concede... I had to admit to myself, and then to others, that I wasn't, and am not, able to get it all done on my own. πŸ˜” A good online friend told me that we're not used to make it on our own, that we always need some form of support. But, getting that support as a NeuroSpicy 🌢️ person, it's even more challenging (and maybe also more important). […]

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I hear you, and I'm going through much the same things, trying to navigate the government and medical systems to get various kinds of help because I can't make it on my own, at least not now with autistic burnout. Just the other day I found out that the doctor I had met with weeks before didn't accept me as a 'family doctor' patient, but I guess had neglected to tell me either. So on top of the wasted effort, sprinkle a little rejection sensitivity on there because why not.

Anyway yeah, much the same stuff. And it is my hope that at some point I can help others by making communities and help networks so other people do'n't have to go through the same thing because there is no need for it. Our society is just really badly optimized and people like us get the brunt of it (along with other groups of course).

Cute pic btw. I can relate to a lot of that too. And that's some autistic level attention to detail! πŸ‘