I feel seen. But like, the furry/fursona version. If I catch desires for them, and they commission a lot of art… woof.

Also like, randoms usually don’t want to dive straight into kinks like being facefucked in public or written on, put in chastity, and came on before going to dinner. Whereas someone you already have a relationship with is (typically, ime…) much more open to those kinds of ideas. When I’m horny, the least amount of resistance between ravaging someone gagged and begging, the better.

As someone who frequents those types of videos, I have the same revulsion to my own family that I imagine everyone else does. My fetish is more the taboo of it. I love when people who shouldn’t have sex do it anyway. College professor with their student? Yes please. Nun with a confessor? Sign me up.

My wife often joins me in watching these videos, and has introduced me to a few genres of her own. You have a lot more fun when you accept the interests of others, as well as your own.