“That sounds harsh, but it’s true. When you ask someone “what do you think?” without sharing what you think, you’re not collaborating, but more like outsourcing?”
https://terriblesoftware.org/2026/02/02/why-am-i-doing-the-thinking-for-you/
Why Am I Doing the Thinking for You?

‘What do you think?’ without a position isn’t a question — it’s a task assignment. State your opinion first. Let people react to something concrete.

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