give me thoughts about UTM vs Fusion vs Virtualbox for #virtualization on Apple MacOS with Silicon processor (using M4 if that makes a difference)

main goal is running a slim linux vm for some non-macOS tasks and a kali VM.

ive been using UTM since the first M1 mac, but currently my network setup keeps breaking, so im looking alt alternatives,

@cy what are your "special needs" for the network setup? Would just using containers in podman-machine be OK or even better?

Or just plain qemu with direct kernel-boot:
```
qemu-system-aarch64 -M virt,accel=hvf ...

<full command does not fit in here with the limits of my instance>
```

@treibholz i don't have any needs. i just had the issue that UTM removed the network adapter twice (without me remembering tampering with the settings)