it's physically impossible for me to switch off of discord if i also don't want to lose all of my friends in the process. fucking unbelievable.
@zekkidae
my advice: bridges.
i host multiple discord to matrix bridges for communities i want to stay connected to, which is only 5
@swirly i don't have a central server for people to talk to me (well, not anymore), people usually just dm me

i don't think DM relays would work that well
@zekkidae
you always have email, or hell, sms