One thing the recent sexism discussion made clear to me: many people, when asked whether they witnessed sexism, talk about isolated sexist *remarks* they witnessed or didn't witness: catcalling, fuckability scoring, demeaning commentary about body weight.

But sexism is *structural*, and witnessing sexism also means witnessing mansplaining, almost exclusively male engineering classes or upper management ranks, gendered clothing and toys for toddlers, parenting advice for "moms", and much more.

@quidcumque Thank you for reminding me (and I hope I'll remember it should the need arise) that I'm witnessing sexism every day right here at home. I live in an assisted-living facility, and all but one of our nurses are female. It was a bit of an event when, some years ago, a new batch of trainees arrived and one of them turned out to be male.
@juliainfinland oh yes, that's a good example too! There's a male trainee at my kids' daycare and that also was an event.