What has become too normalized that shouldn't be normalized to begin with?
What has become too normalized that shouldn't be normalized to begin with?
My ex drugged and raped me and I’ve had people straight up tell me “well maybe you should have put out”
Like what the fuck is wrong with people. God forbid a woman have boundaries. I wasn’t ready for sex and my ex didn’t give a damn. Looking back, he was hella abusive and just had me charmed.
The whole thing was so traumatic that I repressed the memories for five years as a survival mechanism. Apparently some people think that I wouldn’t have CPTSD if I’d just push my own boundaries aside and let the dude fuck me. I was already doing that for the guy, but sex was a boundary I couldn’t push aside at that time…