A lot of people in tech want me to produce more work but get upset if I talk about what it costs me to produce work, I really hope eventually we can get a little bit better at accepting that social, cultural, psychological work is real work
I Am Not a Vending Machine for Trauma I am trying to take care of my family and future just like anybody
@grimalkina I feel as though "you are not working hard enough to help me become a better person" is a class of behaviour we already have a term for, whether or not the people doing it realize that's what they're doing.

…I can’t think of the term although several Dickens characters are understudying

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@grimalkina no, you are a vending machine. D*. what time is it. /j
@grimalkina I’m so thankful for these things I do receive, but I do not wish for more things at the expense of your ability to provide them.
@rmi a completely different category of experience for me when people hope for us to all succeed together vs what I describe here!!