I know I've said it before, but I'm telling you, you don't have to be cruel to men just because you have trauma from men abusing you. You can do what I did: download the Sims game of your choice, and kill male sims until you feel better.
@BathysphereHat see also: Have a RimWorld ideology with the “Female supremacy” meme and execute or enslave any male pawns that get pushed your way.