Ace sex workers, tell me your stories.

I'm certain I'm not the only ace person who writes erotica, and I know at least one ace person who's acted in adult films. We exist.

Hit me up, this thread, DMs, carrier pigeon, whatevs. How has your relationship to sex shaped your relationship to sex work?

Mostly I'm curious but I'm toying with the idea of writing an essay around this.

Also, if any of my ace friendos want to chime in on their relation to sex work from the outside perspective, feel free.

@SymTrkl how has being ace shaped my relationship to sex work? I don't think it has? The two seem orthogonal to me, personally. I've dated a sex worker. I've shared housed with another. Had some in the friendship circles. As an outsider, I don't see what the supposed big deal is. It's a job, as far as I'm concerned 🤷‍♀️ (and that was the view of these individuals too, as far as they confided).

Or maybe that's how it has shaped it? I see different types of attraction as separate, and sex holds no privileged position.